flirting falls under the same distortion of what you experience as the effort to read one’s mind,
flirting for pleasure enables you to keep the resulting relationships at a comfortable level,
at a level that doesn’t change with time,
the partners are always different and you have the satisfaction of acceptance from the flirting partner,
i begin to think that flirting is actually a trap.

when in a relationship with an inexperienced partner you tend to fall under the cheating reasons very fast,
a romantic approach ” i love you, you love me ” is not enough to escape the flirting trap,
i think you need experience in order to understand and satisfy each other needs,
by experience i mean life experience, general relationship experience and sexual experience all into one,
this experience alone will suppress the cheating reasons.

nothing new under the sun,
what i thought here was clear to many people before me,
i just wanted a way out of the flirting trap,
but this approach raises a big question,
am i experienced enough to understand and satisfy an experienced partner?
i think that the spark that started all these thoughts was experience itself,
i know what i want,
i know what i want from my partner,
and i know what i want from a relationship,
my biggest desire is to have fun,
fun with my partner,
fun with my friends,
fun with strangers in strange places.

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